In "The Spring Madness of Mr Sermon", R F Delderfield observes that most of us drift through life, never really becoming aware of the chilling fact - that should shock us out of our satisficing dreaming lethargy into new beginnings - we only get one go!
"It is not given to many of us to pinpoint the actual moment of our entry into a world of new beginnings. In any case, most of us don't have new beginnings but spend half our days and nights dreaming of them, of a fresh start, a setting out on a beckoning high-road to adventure and romance, a spiritual and physical rebirth"
Recently I talked with a high-flying international business consultant. A brilliant individual with a blue-chip track record of assignments, working for multinational corporations all over the world.
But despite this stellar success, his fervently stated ambition, his dream, was to start his own business. First, he told me, he would work for a few more years in a major consulting business to make a nestegg of money and then, with that security behind him, he would get the new venture under way.
I wish him well, though I suspect his new beginning will remain a dream, as he drifts on in risk-free disappointed comfort. He needs some Spring Madness decision-making to make his dream a reality.
Not everyone wants to start their own business, but most of us do want to make a difference in our work and life. Maybe your dream is related to your profession or family or leisure time.
Whilst it is likely that this dream represents your chance, maybe your only chance, to do something of significance, you prevaricate until the time is right.
Take careful note of this penetrating statement by Martin Luther King. "There is no wrong time to do the right thing".
Most of us have had setbacks one way or another with the downturn and many advisors are counselling caution. At the start of a New Year in these ongoing difficult circumstances we are faced with a clear choice - drift or decide. Most people will be cautious, do nothing and drift.
I'm not going to advise anybody to drift. I'm an advocate for the world of adventure and romance for 2010.
Here are a couple of thoughts on new beginnings - for you.
1. Decide to articulate your dream and tell somebody about it.
2. Make a forecast - written - of what you need to achieve in 2010 to initiate your new beginning.
3. Create a supporting action plan and make these actions your 2010 New Year resolutions.
4. Share the detail and the excitement with somebody. Record it.
5. Apply MichelAngelo's statement to yourself, "The tragedy for most of us, is not that we aim too high and miss it - but that we aim too low and hit it"
6. Do it. Initiate your new beginnings in a real and tangible way.
If you pinpoint the actual moment and set out on the high-road, like Mr Sermon, some day you too will remember.
"He remembers this and will never forget it, not even when he is an old, old man, dying in some impersonal nursing home, watched by impersonal mutes. And he remembers so well because it was the most stupendous thing that ever happened to him or ever would happen to him, come earthquakes, global convulsions, nuclear wars and landings on the moon"
Stupendous Spring Madness of Mr/Ms ..................???
By the way, it's a great book. Happy New Beginnings!
2 comments:
Will, I have started 3 businesses in my day. The first when I was 26 and 10 years on it's still going well. The other 2 crashed and burned.
Starting a business young means you have less to loose, fewer family commitments. It also means less commercial experience and a higher likelihood to fail which is the reason 2 of my start-ups didn't work.
There is no good time to start a business as it's taking a risk. Who on earth would want to remortgage their house on the hope their business succeeds?
There is no bad time to start a business as the thrill, buzz and excitement of the challenge is always there. The immense freedom and potential wealth that comes with success are only just around the corner.
The question I would pose to the reader is do they want managed risk with potential massive reward or are they content with a the life they have.
Nothing wrong with either answer. There is a problem if the answer is risk adverse and unhappy with your lot. Something gotta change!
P.S. Happy New Year you grump! :-)
You are right Niall. Nothing wrong with either answer so long as people are happy. But my observation is that many are prepared to drift on even when unhappy and it is those I am trying to jolt out of their lethargy. We only get one go!
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